rub someone up the wrong way
惹人讨厌或惹恼别人
口语·英式表达无意中惹恼他人
英文释义
to irritate or annoy someone, often unintentionally
例句
I didn't mean to rub him up the wrong way with my comment.
典故来源
与rub someone the wrong way同源，英式英语常用形式。