you can catch more flies with honey than you can with vinegar
蜜比醋能引来更多的苍蝇
口语·建议温和待人
英文释义
being kind and polite is more effective in persuading others than being harsh or argumentative
例句
Instead of yelling at the kids, try praising them. You can catch more flies with honey than you can with vinegar.
典故来源
与上一条同源，强调礼貌比强硬更有效，常见于日常劝诫。