paddle your own canoe
独立自主地去处理自己的事情
口语·鼓励自立
英文释义
to be self-reliant; to take responsibility for one's own actions and decisions
例句
You can't rely on others forever; it's time to paddle your own canoe.
典故来源
源自19世纪美国谚语，划船需自己用力，引申为个人负责自己的生活和决定。