wear the pants
握有权力、控制整个局面、做重大决策
口语·形容关系中的主导者
英文释义
to be in control or have dominance in a relationship or situation
例句
In their marriage, she definitely wears the pants.
典故来源
源于19世纪，裤子象征男性权威，女性穿裤子则代表掌握家庭主导权。