when all is said and done
话虽如此，事实上
口语·总结时强调最终结果
英文释义
after considering all the facts or events; ultimately; in the final analysis
例句
When all is said and done, we just want our kids to be happy.
典故来源
源自16世纪英语，强调在讨论或行动结束后，最终得出的结论或本质。