wear the trousers
掌握权力、决策或控制权；在家庭或关系中拥有支配地位
口语·形容家庭或关系中的支配者
英文释义
to be the one who makes the decisions or holds the power in a relationship or situation
例句
He may seem tough, but his wife wears the trousers at home.
典故来源
与'wear the pants'同义，英国英语常用，裤子象征权力和决策地位。