Being assertive does not mean attacking or ignoring others feelings. It means that you are willing to hold up for yourself fairly-without attacking others.
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adj. 乐意的，愿意的;自愿的，心甘情愿的;
v. will的现在分词;决心;用意志力驱使;
💡 will愿意 + ing 名词后缀→ 愿意的
"Neither party is willing to compromise and herein lies the problem."
双方都不愿意妥协，问题就在这里。
近义：anxious, appetent, intentional, aspiring, minded, avid
反义：hesitant, indisposed, loath, obdurate, obstinate, averse
pron. 你自己;（用以加强语气）亲自;你的正常或健康的情况;
💡 your你的+self自己 → 你自己
"De-stress yourself with a relaxing bath."
舒舒服服洗个澡放松一下。
近义：herself, himself, itself, oneself, themselves, thyself
adv. 适当，相当地;公平地;完全，简直;清楚地;
💡 fair公平 + ly ...地→ ad.相当；公平地
"The use of opium was not criminalized until fairly recently."
直到最近抽鸦片才被判定为非法。
近义：long, moderately, averagely, pretty, quite, rather
反义：undeservingly, unjustly, foully
adj. 观点明确的;坚决主张的;
"You should try and be more assertive."
你应该努力坚定信心。
近义：assertory, attacking, pushing, pushy, venturous, belligerent
反义：bashful, sheepish, short, shy, timid, timorous
v. 表示…的意思;意思是;打算;产生…结果;
adj. 吝啬的;刻薄的;破旧的;残忍的;
n. 平均数;中间;几何平均;等比中数;
💡 他哭mean（意味着）想吃吃meat（肉）
"I don't mean to disparage your achievements."
我并不想贬低你的成就。
近义：hint, imply, insinuate, intimate, purport, signify
反义：humane, humanitarian, liberal, lofty, loose, loyal
n. 方法（ mean的名词复数）;手段;收入;财富;
v. 意味着（ mean的第三人称单数）;引起;打算或注定要某人成为或做某事;
"The inquiry is by no means cut and dried."
调查之事远未盖棺定论。
近义：approach, manner, method, mode, process, strategy